Mental Health
Various notes on possible issues to keep in mind.
- Not Asking For Help: possible cause is none of value, or at all, is believed to be possibly received.
- Not Being Socially Active: probably due to the fact that if I didn’t feel loved by family, the assumption is that nobody else could love me. If neither my family loved me, why would anybody else do? Why bothering trying to find love in others then?
- Not desiring friends: if no capability of dealing with strangers has been learned during childhood, it is hard to deal with friends’ necessities and requests. It is only too easy then to end up not respecting one’s borders, and growing resenting friends for this. This phenomenon, spread over decades, may lead to consider all friends and acquaintances as a nuisance rather than valuable relationships.